Early Childhood Development – Back to Basics

Through all my research about early childhood development, I have noticed several themes cropping up time and time again.  As a parent, you probably would not have had to do any reading to know this because they are all pretty common sense stuff.  However, as common sense as it is, sometimes, it still gets lost along the way because of our hectic and fast-paced modern lifestyles that end up leaving us so physically exhausted and emotionally drained that it hurts to think sometimes.

Time and again, the following messages keep coming up:

  • Too much screen time is bad.
  • Reading is good.
  • Movement is good for brain development.

As I said – common sense.  So why do parenting books, research studies, and experts have to keep telling us this?  It’s not as if we don’t already know it.  I believe that when we get too advanced, we start to forget the basics.  As an example, take a look at any subject you have ever studied so well until you were an “expert” at it…  Yet, even as an “expert” we still make mistakes.  When we examine those mistakes, we find that they are errors on such basic fundamentals that we find ourselves asking, “How ever did I make such a simple mistake?”

Back to the Basics…

1. Too much screen time is bad

Two hours maximum seems to be the general rule of thumb.  So how did we end up parking the children in front of the TV (or computer) for too many hours a day?  TV holds our children’s attention so well that it has often made a “good babysitter” for the times when we’ve needed to take a breather, put that load in the washing, take out the garbage, balance the cheque books, and the list goes on.

It’s like a line that’s been crossed.  Once you’ve crossed it, it becomes easier and easier to cross.  “I’ll just let him watch one program.”  The next thing you know, he’s watching more than two hours a day and you can’t remember how it got that way.

Sometimes you just need an activity that can totally absorb your child for a while.  What can you do?  The answer varies from parent to parent depending on your child’s interests.

For me, this is one of the greatest benefits of having taught Gavin to read young.  Sometimes, if I need to keep him busy while I’m handling Gareth, I can ask him to read his books and he will be holed up in his reading corner for a good half hour.

This has also been one of the benefits of having a child with an obsession.  Gavin’s obsession has been Thomas and Friends ever since he was one year old.  Although he prefers to play with someone, he is able to entertain himself playing with his trains.

Another activity that helps to totally absorb him is painting.  I give him some paints and I let him go wild in the shower.  I let him paint the walls but he has to clean off the paints after – which he also enjoys, not to mention it takes him at least another five minutes.

2. Reading is good

Duh!  Of course it is.  But I don’t think it is clear just how good it is because the benefits of reading have been under-rated.  Just how does reading benefit our children?  I’ve written about the some of the benefits of reading aloud to your child and how it helps your child learn to read in my previous posts – check it out if you haven’t already read them.

3. Movement is good for brain development

I think it goes without saying that physical activity and exercise are good for children.  It’s good for anyone.  But here are some other findings on movement:

  • Crawling helps to develop the corpus callosum (the band of fibers in the brain connecting the left and right brains) – Doman.
  • Children need to move to learn – TweedleWink.
  • Brain Gym (which I will be writing more about soon) talks about specific movements that can help improve concentration, and physical, emotional and mental development.

So go grab a book and head out to the park.


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Early Childhood Education: The Power of the Letter “S”

The problem with exposing your child to lots of different early development programs is that you never know which ones are working for you and which ones aren’t.  Then again, when you’ve only got the one child (or two), the idea is to exposed him to as much as you can possibly get your hands on and hope that something sticks.  Because by the time you figure out what’s working for them, it’s usually quite a ways down the line.

For instance, I started Gavin on Sign language when he was about five months.  When I didn’t really see any results, my enthusiasm flagged and I gave it up.  It wasn’t until months later that he started to sign words I’d taught him that I realised he had been absorbing it all.  I picked up the Sign language again and gave it more effort but who knows what we could have achieved if I had kept going on during those months when I initially stopped.

Similarly, last night, I was reading about some of the achievement of Shichida kids from the Shichida program.  Suddenly, my precocious and advanced toddler seems like just an average kid.  If friends and family think that Gavin’s advanced now, I wonder how much more I could have helped him developed if I had just investigated Shichida a little more when I first heard about the program back when Gavin was about a year old.

Anyway, this blog post isn’t supposed to be about regrets.  Nor is it even supposed to be about having the most precocious toddler.  It’s about discovering what works…

For someone who originally did not intend for her son to start watching TV until he was at least 2 years old, I certainly crumbled in my resolve early.  Then again, Gavin’s keen interest in Thomas and Friends was the reason why he learned his colours and numbers so early.  There was no mistaking the fact that he would say “Percy” when he was referring to the colour green during the early days of learning all about colours.  For instance, he would say, “Percy” and point under the chair and when I checked under the chair, I would find the green crayon had rolled underneath it.  So although Gavin started watching TV early, it didn’t look like it affected him too much in terms of development.  If anything could be said, it appeared to have a positive effect on his development.

When Gavin displayed a keen interest in watching “WordWorld“, I was delighted.  I even went out to buy him the DVD series.  If Thomas and Friends had been useful from an educational standpoint, then surely WordWorld – which was designed with education in mind – would be even better.  I convinced myself that WordWorld was actually good for Gavin to watch because he would be learning how to recognise words.  Just in case you aren’t familiar with WordWorld, it is a TV program where all the objects and characters are created out of letters.  You can see what I mean in the picture below – house is made out of the letters “h-o-u-s-e” and dog is created out of the letters “d-o-g”.

Everything in WordWorld is made out of letters with the intention of teaching children how those objects appear in its written form.  Sounds educational enough, doesn’t it?  Well, I don’t know if the children will actually really recognise the fact that the dog is made up of the letters “d-o-g”, but they definitely do learn something.

When we were in Baskin Robbins having ice cream one day, Gavin pointed to a word on the board and said, “It says cakes, Mummy! S means there are lots of cakes!”  So he recognised the word “cakes” and the fact that the addition of the letter “s” meant that there was more than one.  There was an episode of WordWorld where Duck learned the power of the letter “s”.  By adding “s” onto the end of a word meant you would have more of that word.

In case you’re wondering if Gavin could have learned the rule of plurals somewhere else, I think the evidence that he learned it from WordWorld was cemented by his statement, “Just like on WordWorld!”  Now I don’t feel so bad buying all those WordWorld DVDs for him…


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Gavin Recommends Mickey Mouse Clubhouse

Being ill with morning sickness and feeling tired all the time, I confess I’ve allowed Gavin to watch far more TV than I would ordinarily agree to.  I think much of it has to do with the fact that we’re home a lot more rather than being out and about doing other things.  Since I’m usually too tired or too ill to play with him, I’ll lie down and stare at the idiot box while Gavin offers half his attention to his own activities (usually his Thomas trains) and the other half to the TV.

To help compensate for the increase TV time, I’ve tried to direct his viewing to programs such as Little Einsteins, Tigger and Pooh, and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. Why specifically these three programs?  Because they make some attempt to interact with their audience with questions and they are educational in nature.

Although Gavin is usually happy to watch any of these three programs, I find that Gavin enjoys Mickey Mouse Clubhouse best.  With Little Einsteins, I find there are specific episodes that he doesn’t like because he finds it “scary” – although exactly why he finds it frightening, I’m not too sure.  Usually, it is the episodes with Big Jet that he doesn’t like.  With Tigger and Pooh, it is pretty much the flavour of the day – some days he likes to watch it, some days he doesn’t.  There is no rhyme nor reason for this one.

I used to let him watch these programs when they aired on the Playhouse Disney Channel in the mornings, but I find they often have these short “in between” cartoon snippets that Gavin doesn’t like, such as “Bert and Ernie’s Great Adventures”.  I don’t know why he hates that one either – and yes, he definitely hates it because he’ll insist on changing the channel.  Since he enjoyed Mickey Mouse Clubhouse so much, I went looking for the DVDs and managed to find:

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Mickey’s Great Clubhouse Hunt

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse Hunt

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Mickey’s Storybook Surprises

Mickey Mouse Story Book Surprises

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Mickey Saves Santa

Mickey Mouse Saves Santa

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: Mickey’s Treat

Mickey Mouse Treat

Then I stumbled across the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse Box Set online which was a lot cheaper than buying the DVDs individually.  I tried to order it only to discover it was out of stock.

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse Box Set

Dang!  Looks like Gavin will just have to be patient and wait for them to be released at our local DVD shop…


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