Children and Sleep: If They Don’t Snooze, They Lose…

If your child isn’t getting enough sleep, his performance in school drops. Well that’s obvious. But what may not be obvious is how significantly it impacts your child if he misses just one hour of sleep a night.

“A sleep deprivation study on a group of elementary students revealed that sixth graders, missing one hour of sleep a night, performed in class at the level of a fourth grader.” – The Lost Hour, Nurture Shock

“children between the ages of 10 and 16 who have sleep disordered breathing, which includes snoring, sleep apnea, and other types of interrupted breathing during sleep, are more likely to have problems with attention and learning, according to a 2010 study in the journal Sleep” – Health

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Getting enough sleep is vital to academic success

These are 6 reasons from the American Academy of Sleep Medicine on why sleep is important for academic success:

  • Sleepiness and poor sleep quality are prevalent among university students, affecting their academic performance and daytime functioning.
  • Students with symptoms of sleep disorders are more likely to receive poor grades in classes such as math, reading and writing than peers without symptoms of sleep disorders.
  • College students with insomnia have significantly more mental health problems than college students without insomnia.
  • College students with medical-related majors are more likely to have poorer quality of sleep in comparison to those with a humanities major.
  • College students who pull “all-nighters” are more likely to have a lower GPA.
  • Students who stay up late on school nights and make up for it by sleeping late on weekends are more likely to perform poorly in the classroom. This is because, on weekends, they are waking up at a time that is later than their internal body clock expects. The fact that their clock must get used to a new routine may affect their ability to be awake early for school at the beginning of the week when they revert back to their old routine.


Sleep problems and drug use

According to the American Psychological Association:

“a long-term study published in the 2004 April issue of Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research, [showed that] young teenagers whose preschool sleep habits were poor were more than twice as likely to use drugs, tobacco or alcohol. The researchers suggest that early sleep problems may be a “marker” for predicting later risk of early adolescent substance abuse—and that there may be a common biological factor underlying both traits.”


Why is sleep important?

The Harvard Health Publications share these reasons why it is important to get enough sleep:

  • Learning and memory – sleep helps the brain commit new information to memory through a process called memory consolidation. In studies, people who’d slept after learning a task did better on tests later.
  • Metabolism and weight – chronic sleep deprivation may cause weight gain by affecting the way our bodies process and store carbohydrates, and by altering levels of hormones that affect our appetite.
  • Sleep debt contributes to a greater tendency to fall asleep during the daytime.
  • Sleep loss may result in irritability, impatience, inability to concentrate, and moodiness. Too little sleep can also leave you too tired to do the things you like to do.
  • Sleep deprivation alters immune function, including the activity of the body’s killer cells. Keeping up with sleep may also help fight cancer.

Health Magazine adds that sleep also has these effects:

  • spurs creativity - your brain reorganizes and restructures memory which may result in more creativity. Additionally, people seem to strengthen the emotional components of a memory during sleep, which may help spur the creative process.
  • improved physical performance – a Stanford University study found that college football players who tried to sleep at least 10 hours a night for seven to eight weeks improved their average sprint time and had less daytime fatigue and more stamina.
  • facilitates weight loss – researchers at the University of Chicago found that dieters who were well rested lost more fat—56% of their weight loss—than those who were sleep deprived, who lost more muscle mass. Dieters in the study also felt more hungry when they got less sleep. “Sleep and metabolism are controlled by the same sectors of the brain,” Dr. Rapoport says. “When you are sleepy, certain hormones go up in your blood, and those same hormones drive appetite.”
  • not sleeping enough can lead to depression


Why are children sleeping later?

  • hectic family schedules - reluctance of late-working parents to pack their kids off to bed early, sheer parental exhaustion allows kids to win the sleeptime skirmishes
  • over-scheduling with too many extra-curricular activities
  • overstimulation in children who have TVs in their bedrooms, play video games too close to bedtime, or even texting on their phones

How do you know when your child is not sleeping enough?

  • constantly falling asleep in the car even on short trips
  • eye rubbing, irritability, and aggressive behavior
  • a child who needs a lot of prodding to start moving in the morning may be sleeping too late

Even if your child gets up on her own, that isn’t necessarily a sign that she’s fully rested. Dr Mindell, director of behavioral pediatrics of the Sleep Disorders Center at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, explains that we have very strong internal clocks and some children will wake up at a certain hour no matter what time they go to bed.


The problem with teenagers and sleep

Probably the most concerning issue with children and sleep involve teenagers…

“during the teen years, the body’s circadianrhythm (sort of like an internal biological clock) is temporarily reset, telling a person to fall asleep later and wake up later. This change might be due to the fact that the brain hormonemelatonin is produced later at night for teens than it is for kids and adults. This can make it harder for teens to fall asleep early.” - KidsHealth

Given the early start times of school, our teenagers can suffering from a significant sleep deficit over time.

With this understanding of teenage sleep patterns, there has been a push for later start times for highschools. Even pushing back the start time of schools by 25 minutes can make an impact on teenage productivity. Unfortunately for us, this movement hasn’t really taken place here. Here’s hoping the schools will make the change before my boys hit their teenage years and start highschool…


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Forge of Honor – Fighting Bedtime Monsters in the Name of Imaginative Play

When I was little, I would pretend I had an imaginary friend under my bed to keep me company at night because I was afraid of the dark. When I grew older, the fear of the dark became the fear of the boogie man who would come through the windows and kidnap little children from their beds. Yes, Monsters Inc got it all wrong – they don’t come from your cupboard; it’s the windows you have to beware of.

Now I have two boys and they’re afraid to sleep without me unless the night light is on. Even though they have each other in the same room, there’s nothing like an adult to keep the monsters at bay. The boys were frequently looking for me in the middle of the night and I eventually got so tired of swapping rooms that I just slept in their room. I even had my own pillow and blanket in there!

Some time back, Aristotle’s night time fears manifested as spooky trees so Daddy made him a “magic axe” that he could use to chop down the spooky trees if they ever came after him. He kept the axe by the window and got very upset whenever Hercules tried to take his axe. Aristotle is a little better now about sleeping alone in the dark but he still likes to have the night light on. Hercules, on the other hand, hates the dark.

FOH Meet Targimals

When I saw the Forge of Honor: Targimals and Border Blades & Shields on Kickstarter, I thought they were the perfect toys for the boys. They are both at the age where they want to be heroes fighting evil and saving all manner of things – they’ve been ninjas, Star Wars characters, and Octonauts. They’ve been making “weapons” out of Lego, balloons, cardboard cylinders, and a variety of other unfriendly objects that cause a lot of damage (to persons and property) when certain little boys get too excited in their imaginative play. The Lego breaks too easily, the balloons deflate after a couple of days, and Hercules tends to turn the cardboard cylinders into confetti after a while. The Forge of Honor Blades & Shields would be a perfect addition for them to take their creative play to a whole new level.

Except there’s only one problem… Forge of Honor toys don’t exist yet. They are a project on Kickstarter that will only come into reality if they get sufficient backers to fund the creation of the project. They need $18000 to reach their goal. At the time of writing this, they have $12839 so they are more than 2/3 of the way there. So now I’m writing to tell you about the Targimals with the hope that you will like them enough to pledge your support to help make this toy a reality.

Forge of Honor

About The Forge of Honor: Targimals and Bordor Blades & Shields

The Targimals are legendary warriors who live to protect children against bedtime monsters and other scary creatures. Combined with the Bordor Blades™ and Bordor Shields™, these soft and cuddly toys are not just great for keeping you children safe at night from the boogieman, they will foster imagination, encourage creative play, and bring courage to children. The Targimals and Bordor Blades & Shields are designed so that they easily switch between “battle mode” and “pillow mode” via a slot at the top of the shield.

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Why Imaginative Play?

Even if your child is not afraid of the night, the Targimals and Bordor Blades and Shields are a great way to encourage imaginative play for children which we all know is not only good for children but also important because:

  • it helps to develop their imagination and creativity
  • it helps to develop language skills
  • it helps to develop social skills
  • it facilitates emotional development
  • it provides children with an opportunity to relax and unwind
  • it helps children come to terms with their fears
  • it gives children a sense of power and control which they don’t often feel in regular daily life

Last but not least, pretend play is a significant component of the Tools of the Mind program that has been found to be particularly effective in helping children develop self-control - a key determinant of future success.

Forge of Honor Books and Activities

What else is coming? There is a story behind the Targimals. If the Targimal Kickstarter Project is successful, we will see a series of books to support the Targimals’ story that can potentially grow up with our children. This will be an excellent way to inculcate good reading habits from young. I’ve always liked concepts that are all-encompassing because if you can capture your child’s interest in a small way, they’ll carry themselves the rest of the way. For example, if you have trouble encouraging your child to read, stories about their favourite toys will be a great way to get them interested in books.

In addition to the future plans for the books, there will be Targimal activity pages released on a regular basis to help keep your child busy while you wait for your Targimals, Swords and Shields.

We think Forge of Honor Targimals and Border Blades and Swords are a terrific toy concept and hope you will pledge your support to this worthy project.

We have only until 6 August to save the world from night time monsters! In the name of honor and creative play, we need heroes to step forward and choose a Targimal, Border Blade and Sword from a choice of six options. Pledge your support before 6 August 2013 or the night time monsters will take dominion over the world!

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Shichida’s 5 Minute Suggestion – Part 3

Shichida’s 5 Minute Suggestion is a method of autosuggestion that parents can use to help their children improve their behaviours and to develop emotional resilience. The idea is to speak to your child 5 minutes after he falls asleep using love and encouragement to help him overcome any obstacles or difficult behaviours. It’s sounds pretty straight forward when you read it but a few mothers have raised the question with me that it is sometimes hard to catch your child in that window 5 minutes after falling asleep since we don’t necessarily know the exact moment our children fall asleep (especially when they can pretend so well – Aristotle’s mastered the art of faking sleep down to a t). So what if you miss that window? Will it still work?

Here’s what I think…

“During the first 5 minutes after a child has fallen asleep, the conscious mind goes to sleep, but the subconscious is still awake and functioning. This is a good time to work on the subconscious mind.”

There are 4 stages of sleep – 3 stages comprise of non-REM sleep (non rapid eye movement) and 1 stage of REM sleep (also known as the dreaming stage). Throughout the night, you go through cycles of sleep where you move through each stage of sleep. This is a typical cycle of sleep:

  • NREM 1 – 10 minutes
  • NREM 2 – 30-60 minutes
  • NREM 3 – 20-40 minutes
  • REM

Although babies go straight from wakefulness to REM sleep, by the time they are 3 months, the normal NREM/REM sleep pattern tends to take place. That means that when you use the 5 minute suggestion with your child, you are really speaking to him when he is in NREM 1. The brainwave frequency at this time is 6-8hz which is pretty close to REM frequency (the pattern of which is said to be very much like wakefulness).

Here is a typical sleep cycle pattern of a child over the course of a night:


I would presume that if you missed your child’s first 5 minutes of sleep, the next best time is to catch her is just after a REM stage – which is easy to detect because you will be able to see that your child’s eyes will stop moving. Of course this is just me making assumptions…


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