Post-Natal: Getting Fit Again

Post-delivery there is a dicey period where you have to be careful about what you’re doing.  As eager as we all are to start exercising and shedding off all that excess post-baby weight, there are exercises that you should and shouldn’t be doing.  It is especially important to find out what you can and can’t do based on your individual position.

For instance, if you have a separated rectus abominis, there are quite a number of exercises you should avoid.  There are also exercises you can and should do to facilitate closure of the gap between the muscles.  Since this is the problem I have, the exercises I’m going to focus on are those that help recondition these muscles.

Firstly, it is important to have realistic expectations.  If you kept fit and were exercising during your pregnancy, then you will find it easier to get back into shape – too bad for me…  It is also important to have a realistic time line for achieving your weight loss goals.  Expect to take anywhere between three to nine months to return to “normal”, after all, it did take you nine months to get to this stage.

General recommendation is to wait six weeks after a normal delivery before commencing an exercise regime, although some women can begin earlier than this.  The best person to check with is your doctor.  Always get your doctor’s okay before you start.

BeFitMom is a good website to start with if you intend to do your own homework on what you should and shouldn’t do.  Ideally, if you can get an instructor who is experienced and knowledgeable about the post-partum body, you’re also good to go.  If you have to work out at home, postnatal workout DVDs are a good bet as they give more consideration towards the post-partum body when developing exercise programs.  However, it is important to make sure you check the credentials of the DVD as some are better than others.  Make sure that the DVDs you are specially for post-partum mothers and not simply exercises thrown together which have little relevance to post-partum mothers.  There are also some DVD exercises developed for mother and baby so you can even work out with your baby.

So I was going to get started on my own personal “get fit again” exercise program, but after reading through that extensive list of “things you shouldn’t do when you have separated rectus abdominis” I got a little concerned.  Most of the DVD work outs I have aren’t exactly appropriate as they focus a little too intently on working out the abdominals doing many exercises that involve moves I should be avoiding.  As for the stuff I’ve been reading on the internet, I’m not exactly convinced either.  The last thing I need right now is a hernia so perhaps it’s back to Fitfor2 for me where there is someone experienced can tell what to do and what not to do.  Don’t worry, when I know what exercises those are, I’ll let you know too.


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Post-Partum: 6 Week Follow Up and Separated Muscles

I had my six week post-partum follow up with Dr Wong last week.  Everything checked out okay.  My uterus is back to its original size and position – damn, so my excess belly has nothing to do with the uterus and is just excess flab left over from the pregnancy?  Perhaps I should have gone for the urut sessions my MIL suggested after all.

Aside from the belly, I’m still 7 kgs above my pre-pregnancy weight – pre-Gareth weight as opposed to pre-Gavin weight, of which, I am 12 kgs over.  Personally, I’ve stopped caring about how much I weigh, but I do care about the fact that there is still nothing I can wear in my closet that doesn’t make me look like I’m still pregnant.  I’m pretty sure that by this time after Gavin’s delivery, I was looking pretty decent in my old clothes.  Since I didn’t go for the urut sessions like I should have, my only hope now is to start exercising again.

There is are two muscles (rectus abdominis) that encase the abdomen on either side of the belly button.  During pregnancy, these muscles can become separated to allow for expansion of the belly to accommodate the growing foetus.  As far as I remember from my post-natal workouts at Fitfor2 with Gavin, you are supposed to wait until the gap closes before engaging in the more strenuous abdominal workouts or you could risk causing a hernia.  The instructors at Fitfor2 would always check the gap in all postnatal mothers exercising for the first time.

Since I’m not sure if I’ll be going back to Fitfor2 for a while, I thought I’d better check with Dr Wong regarding my abdominal muscles.  Although you can still exercise, there are certain exercises you have to be careful about.  I wasn’t sure how to check the gap myself, so I asked Dr Wong.

The way to feel for the gap between your rectus abdominis is to lie down on your back and lift your head off the ground.  Place your palm against your belly around the belly button area and feel for the gap between two firm ridges.  Alternatively, you can follow the more detailed instructions from BeFitMom:

  1. Lie on your back with your knees bent, and the soles of your feet on the floor.
  2. Place one hand behind your head, and the other hand on your abdomen, with your fingertips across your midline—parallel with your waistline— at the level of your belly button.
  3. With your abdominal wall relaxed, gently press your fingertips into your abdomen.
  4. Roll your upper body off the floor into a “crunch,” making sure that your ribcage moves closer to your pelvis.
  5. Move your fingertips back and forth across your midline, feeling for the right and left sides of your Rectus Abdominis muscle.

My gap is about the width of my palm – which explains why my belly is still protruding so much because a small mound protruding at your midline is one of the signs of a separated rectus abdominis.  Generally anything greater than two and half finger widths is considered a separation.

So what are the dos and don’ts if you have a separated rectus abdominis?

  • Avoid any exercises or activities that place stress on your midline, and that stretch or overly expand the abdominal wall.
  • When exercising, avoid movements where the upper body twists and the arm on that side reaches backward, such as during a tennis serve.
  • Avoid exercises that require lying backward over a large exercise ball.
  • Avoid yoga postures that stretch the abs, such as “cow pose,” “up-dog,” all backbends, and “belly breathing.”
  • Avoid traditional abdominal exercises that work the exterior abdominal muscles, such as crunches and oblique curls.
  • Avoid all exercises that cause your abdominal wall to bulge out upon exertion.
  • Avoid rising from a supine position by rolling up and twisting at the same time. Instead, roll first onto your side, and then use your arms to help push yourself up to a sitting position.
  • Avoid lifting and carrying very heavy objects (according to Dr Wong, the heaviest thing you should carry is your baby – oops!  I’ve been carrying Gavin around and more).
  • Avoid intense coughing while your muscles are unsupported – again oops.  To support your muscles when coughing, place your hands across your belly and manually splint your abdomen together during coughing episodes. This will provide needed additional support, and prevent further separation of your midline.

Oh dear, oh dear, oh dear…  Looks like it’s a good thing I checked all this up because I’ve been breaking all the rules playing games with Gavin – swinging him around, carrying him, etc.

There are exercises that you can do to help speed up midline closure.  Ideally, you should start on these as soon as possible after the delivery.  According to BeFitMom, if you wait longer than six months, it is unlikely that you will be able to close the gap.  Looks like it’s time for me to get started…

Next post: Getting started on postnatal exercises.


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The Baby Blues – Round 2

I never wrote much about the baby blues the first time around after I had Gavin.  I suppose it felt a little too personal to write about on the web.  So why am I writing about it now?  I felt that if this blog is to be a true depiction of what motherhood is about, then it must encompass both the good and the bad. So here it is…

There are so many things that are different the second time around.  Even my experience of “the baby blues” (if you can call it that) is different.  I remember the first time after I delivered Gavin, the feelings of isolation were so intense that I was often desperate for company.  It was odd because I have always been a person who enjoys the silence, the peace, the “alone” time.  To suddenly feel abandoned when everyone went out to dinner and left me alone with the baby was entirely out of character for me.  Then again, there were a lot of things about the experience of pregnancy that were entirely out of character.  Isn’t it amazing what a few hormones can do to you?

They say that second pregnancies and deliveries are easier because the mother already knows what to expect.  Well, from my personal experience, I feel inclined to disagree.  My body ached more and I felt more tired.  It was as if the memory of the first experience made everything worse.  The postnatal experience, however, has definitely felt better.  Perhaps because I already knew that I would often be eating alone and often be sitting in the room alone nursing the baby.  The expectation was already there and I knew what was coming.

Perhaps because I have decided that this will be my last baby, I now relish the time I have with Gareth.  I find myself enjoying the time I sit with him cuddling him and nursing him and no longer feel isolated.  And now, I also have an ardent companion (my older son) who seeks to be glued to my side night and day so how could I possibly feel alone?

During my first postnatal experience, I remember the sense of panic I felt whenever anyone was leaving the house.  “Where are you going?  When are you coming back?  Can’t you buy something back and eat it at home with me?”  These were questions that were commonly on my lips and in my head.  It was probably made worse by the fact that it was Chinese New Year and there were more reasons for the rest of the family to leave the house.  Throw in the Chinese superstition that it isn’t good to visit a house with a woman in confinement and it was a real recipe for postnatal blues.

This time, my feelings of frustration have little to do with the fear of being left alone.  This time, they revolve around Gavin and the changes in his relationship with me.  With Gavin’s difficult behaviour escalating, I have found myself becoming less tolerant and more irritated by his behaviour.  My ability to cope and take his behaviour into stride seem to be  greatly reduced.  There are times where I feel I have been unfair to him and it kills me to react in this manner.  I feel like I am a terrible mother and yet, I cannot stop myself reacting this way.

I try to make up for it during the good moments but fear I must be sending such mixed signals to Gavin.  I’m sure if he knew how to articulate it, he might even think his mother is bipolar.

So let’s hear it… Did you have the baby blues after delivery?  How did it manifest itself?  Was it bad?  What did you do to cope with it?


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